I need to do better, I should do that too, My page doesn’t look like that, Maybe I’m not cut out for this, My outfits be way better, Should I lose weight, Take this picture 20 more times, I don’t have the body for that, I need to learn how to do that, Don’t upload that, I look a mess, I need to watch more makeup tutorials, Can you take this pic, Why her blog so popping. Yep, 🤦🏽‍♀️ my name is Key Dotson and I am a victim of social media. I’m almost embarrassed because in the past I’ve judged others for doing the exact same thing “Taking social media too seriously” Now I’ve never felt the need to live a “fake” life. I am very proud of who I am and what I have. But I can admit that I’ve fell victim to comparing my life specifically my blog content to other bloggers. Everyday I would spend HOURS researching top bloggers thinking maybe I should do that too, even when I knew I wasn’t interested. I started seeking and listening to other people’s advice, and it made me feel as if my vision wasn’t good enough. I had yet another re-evaluation moment. When did you start taking other people’s advice over your own? When did you stop loving your ideas and creativity? When did you stop loving you so much? I wasted so much time doing research on others that I forgot about what’s most important to me, ME.

Before starting my blog I was that person whom got on social media every now and then. I’ll upload a picture in March and maybe one in September. I spent more time doing things that I enjoy while still being VERY fashionable. After starting my blog I almost felt like I needed social media to help promote myself. I found myself getting sad when blogs and pictures didn’t turn out the way I expected. This not only affected me, but my hubby whom I would sometimes take my anger out on. I took the fun out of social media and I’m ready to get back to having that peace of mind that I’m great with or without it.

I caught myself recently getting upset and thought girl you so damn drove, It’s never that serious. After laughing at myself I decided to delete all my apps. As I’m starting this new transition in my life, Its very important for me to focus on what makes me happy. That doesn’t mean that I have to or will stop blogging. When it’s a true passion, you’ll find ways around it. It also doesn’t mean that I think social media is the devil. I believe that it’s a very great platform for bloggers. I’ll eventually get back on, but this time no additional pressure will be added. I’m going to do me. Post when I want, post what I want. Not what others believe is blog acceptable.

I’ll never let anyone’s online life make me question my appearance, accomplishments, and my journey again. God is really working on me and I’m transitioning into who he wants me to be so I can excel at my purpose in life. Through this transition it allows me to re-evaluate what I want and what I don’t want in my life. I’m excited to indulge in some books and get back to planning and doing things my way. I’ll still be uploading blogs and I’m thankful for everyone who’s subscribed and continuously supports me. Don’t let social media add any additional pressure in your life. You’re perfect with or without it.